I was in a ltr for 5 years. I dumped that asshole; but also took a long hard look at myself. I was wack. So I made life changes; threw away fedoras, found supportive friends, educated myself; boosted my career ten-fold and got paid to travel the world. It's dope to stop being an asshole. Everyone wins. Be fresh and single and better yourselves, yo.
In a nutshell—go do you first, and it’ll pay off.
Although I didn’t get paid to travel the world. Eh, you win some.